One of the frustrating problems men often experience when putting on a condom, is keeping their erection hard enough to get the job done.
This almost comical brief departure from the passion of the moment, of fumbling around with a condom wrapper, opening it up and placing it the correct way over the head of the penis, rolling it down all the way, and hoping like hell you don’t cause any splits to appear in the process, is unfortunately a necessary evil and something which cannot be circumvented.
For those men who fail to adhere to the practice of safe sex, the price they pay can sometimes be a very high one.
The choice of wearing a condom with a new partner, isn’t always based on the need to avoid the obstacle of putting the condom on. The truth is, some men simply don’t like wearing condoms.
Sexual intercourse is all about getting as close to that person and feeling as much pleasure as possible. In the heat of the moment when fully aroused, the psychological and physical act of placing a latex sheath on the penis, can for many men feel like a barrier between themselves and the object of their lust.
This insatiable desire to make love with skin touching skin, and without any loss of sensitivity, is something which needs to be weighed up against the danger of contracting std’s.
Let Your Partner Put The Condom On For You
By letting your partner assist you in putting your condom on your erection for you, you’re able to continue enjoying the sensuality of the moment without the worry that you’ll lose your erection. This is the preferred method for those nervous men who often find themselves dealing with sexual performance anxieties.
When the time is right and your fully aroused, pass the condom to your partner and she’ll instinctively know what to do. Continue stroking your penis while remaining calm and relaxed.
When your partner begins to unroll the condom down over the glans and shaft of your penis, relish the sensations, enjoy the feeling of her hands calmly managing the moment and preparing your penis for sex.
Always keep your head straight, and don’t let your mind start wondering about “what ifs”. Just roll with the moment, and get ready to enter her. If you feel your erection starting to lose rigidity, a few gentle thrusts inside your partners vagina will have your erection standing proudly to attention once again.Google+